Responseto your 1st para:
It's not that I was intentionally trying to be unpleasant. With the
accident, my already EXTREMELY strained life ( including 2 deaths in
family - niece and nephew in 3 months time frame - within the past
year while my mother is critically and I can't even visit because of my
immigration processing; now accuse me that I am syaing off-topic)
started going upside down but some peopel judge so quickly accusing me
as a troll as if I had time for that. I felt that that was foolish of
those people and so I showed my opinion by talking baclk. I think that
I have that much right as a human
You've come to this newsgroup demanding answers to your problems both on and off-topic.
Demand? How else should I ask what I need? Isn't newsgroups for info
exchange? I didn't think I was required to act formally o. May be
there was cultural issue. I don't know. I never had problem with
American professors from schools I went (Chemistry as well as Computer
science department) getting to the point.
You've been demeaning to handicapped people.
If I appeared that way I do apologize. ALL I meant was my fear of being
handicapped to the point that I could only live with someone's help. I
made no pretence that I do not want to live unless I can do things I am
intesreted in. Like a lot of others, I belive in the right to die.
Now ,this is a compliacted issue and I won't elaborate. BTW, I am no
fan of Kervokian. I don't know his motives.
You are argumentitive and controlling in your posts.
Some people pushed me to be argumentative but controlling? I disgaree.
In the 134 posts you've made to date, I don't believe you've offered meaningful help to a single poster.
You must be kidding. I came here to get info not to provide as I have
no useful info for the pros when it come to cars. Ask me to help with
your daughter's chemistry homework or Math and I will.
This is a group for *mutual* help.
Believe me if I see a post where I can contribute, I would help. I
don't even understand most of what people are talking about and you
want me to help? Others wil yell at you, I rormise.
I've gotten some very worthwhile help from other Subaru owners here.
I've also done my best to reciprocate and help anyone that I could.
Well, I haven't reached to that point to be able to help with Subaru or
any car but I am helping as much as I could to this girl who bought my
old car w.r.t PROPER maintenance while I am trying to learn myself.
All you've done is demand answers to your problems. Let me give you a clue.
Demand? Keep in mind that English is not my first langauge. I didn't
even grow up speaking or writing Englsih. All I have is from
self-taught. So give me a break, will you?
We don't get paid to do research for you.
I didn't expect people to do research for me. I mentioned that I did
google search to idictae that I didn't have much luck. I posted IN
CASE someone has bought similar things and know whenere to guide me. If
no one knows, the way I see it, there needs to be no response.
We help because we like to help and we like to be helped.
You want my help with the car issues? I hope you are joking.
When it only goes one-way with your smash-and-grab posts, don't be surprised if people are less than willing to be civil with
you.
I don't believe (and disagree) that people who have been mean to me
here are mean because of the reason you stated above. Still I forgive
peope - all the time as it is not my nature to hold grudge. Both you
and I know some people have a tendency to take it out on others. It
amazes me that you are finding excuses for them.
Now, I take the time to make my points. Call it argumentative or
whatever you like. Just know that if I don't have this personality to
stand up for myself, I would have been statistic in this foriegn land
coming from a tiny and isolated (from the world) country and being the
youngest in a very protetcive family with controlling big sisters.
Yes..I know what "control" is. You probably have no clue how much I
know. I do no such thing. I resent being accused of controlling.
If you think that somehow you deserve to get answers to your questions and all this is just the muttering of a working-class >person that's beneath you, we have alternatives.
How did I ever indicate that I deserves answers?
What is this "a working-class person that's beneath you" phrase for?
One is to call for a shun of you. I've done it before in other newsgroups with good effect.
If your conscience is clear that your accusation have foundation and
you feel that you must proceed, go ahead. I wil continue to stand up
for myself and it may include sounding argmentative.
So ease up, help out, and try to act like a good girl.
That's the bottom line, isn't that? I am the "girl" and some of you
expects me to act like an *obedient* little girl who shuts up
regardless whether I was treated fairly or not. That's "control", you
know?
