Venting frustration but happy with new Subie

R

ricardox

I picked up a new 2003 Legacy Special Edition L Wagon last night. Fully
equipped...Very pleased with it. Problem is, today, after less than one day
of ownership, an trip to the supermarket resulted in a ding to the passenger
side front fender. Old lady parked right next to me and swung open her
door...that's life, I guess...

Props to Timmons Subaru in Long Beach, CA, though. Good service, friendly
sales staff.
 
ricardox said:
I picked up a new 2003 Legacy Special Edition L Wagon last night. Fully
equipped...Very pleased with it. Problem is, today, after less than one day
of ownership, an trip to the supermarket resulted in a ding to the passenger
side front fender. Old lady parked right next to me and swung open her
door...that's life, I guess...

Props to Timmons Subaru in Long Beach, CA, though. Good service, friendly
sales staff.

Wow! What did you say to her? Or can you repeat it here? 8^)

Bill Putney
(to reply by e-mail, replace the last letter of the alphabet in my
address with "x")
 
I picked up a new 2003 Legacy Special Edition L Wagon last night. Fully
equipped...Very pleased with it. Problem is, today, after less than one day
of ownership, an trip to the supermarket resulted in a ding to the passenger
side front fender. Old lady parked right next to me and swung open her
door...that's life, I guess...

Welcome to my hell. My Old Man told me I need therapy because I got
into a yelling match that got a little heated with a guy who backed his
Grand Am into my Subie.

I think the only thing you can do is try to limit possible damage but
the dings will come.

I try to always park my car right next to the newest car in the lot
because I figure s/he wants their car dinged as much as me.

I also try to never park it on the corner of a row.

But my problem is I have to park on the street and every idiot in the
world thinks they can make it into the spot between me and the car in
front and they bump and grind their way in..

*sigh*

J
 
If you witness this, this is no different than a collision. The
responsible party is at fault and should be held accountable... either
that or an eye for an eye.

CW
 
It's really simple. Confront the person, ask for name and address and
explain why and that you are going to call police. Ask her for her
insurance proof and contact. Get license number, then go to work on the
phone.

hd
 
Mine was dinged by persons unknown with a white vehicle, before my car
reached 3months old.

Still, I would rather drive my dented Scubi, than a spotless Hyundai!!
 
ricardox said:
I picked up a new 2003 Legacy Special Edition L Wagon last night. Fully
equipped...Very pleased with it. Problem is, today, after less than one day
of ownership, an trip to the supermarket resulted in a ding to the passenger
side front fender. Old lady parked right next to me and swung open her
door...that's life, I guess...

Props to Timmons Subaru in Long Beach, CA, though. Good service, friendly
sales staff.



sOK, you can go ahead and take it off road now. ;])


Mmm, Mmm- This lemonade sure tastes good!

TBerk
 
Very pleased with it. Problem is, today, after less than one day
of ownership, an trip to the supermarket resulted in a ding to the passenger
side front fender. Old lady parked right next to me and swung open her
door...that's life, I guess...

It coulda been worse. We moved to PA five years ago and bought a new Maxima.
Took it to the DMV the day after purchase to get our PA licenses. A 16 year
old girl backed out of the space next to us and badly scrapped up the side of
the Maxima WHILE IN THE PROCESS OF TAKING HER DRIVING TEST! Unbelievable! Car
was one day old, went straight to the body shop.

She failed the test, by the way.

Tom in PA
 
Mine was dinged by persons unknown with a white vehicle, before my car
reached 3months old.

Still, I would rather drive my dented Scubi, than a spotless Hyundai!!

From inside a restaurant, we watched a white pickup park next to our
one month old '02 ForesterS. His door hit my subie so hard I could see
the subie rock. I watched where he was seated to ensure he couldn't see
his truck, and the wife watched the nearby patrons as I caved his door
in with my foot and moved my subie across the street to another business
location. I felt GOOD on the walk back.

We now park at the far end of all parking lots, never next to a white
vehicle, and get a little exercise. After 18 months, still only have the
one ding.

BoB
 
That may not be legal, but I gotta give you props for your actions.

Paintless dent removal is not expensive for 1 or two dents and may be
an option if that one ding gets your blood boiling every time you look
at it.

CW
 
BoB said:
From inside a restaurant, we watched a white pickup park next to our
one month old '02 ForesterS. His door hit my subie so hard I could see
the subie rock. I watched where he was seated to ensure he couldn't see
his truck, and the wife watched the nearby patrons as I caved his door
in with my foot and moved my subie across the street to another business
location. I felt GOOD on the walk back.

We now park at the far end of all parking lots, never next to a white
vehicle, and get a little exercise. After 18 months, still only have the
one ding.

BoB

It seems shit happens, Bob. Several years ago I purchased the car of my
dreams, an '88 Porsche Carrera, white. I've always parked at the far reaches
of any parking lot, lost lot of 2nd dates that way, but that's life. The
Carrera got hit 3 times in as many months by careless people who were not
to be seen. Finally sold the care "becasue I coulnd't protect it."

Before that I had a '98 Chrysler Town and Country mini because I'd wanted
one since I was 15 and fell in love with the '46 T&Cs. Had the car, piece
of junk, for 2 years and it was a magnet for door bashers. In order to
sell it I had to put $1,500 into body repair and re-paint becasue of
unconcious, thoughtless, crass people that don't give a damn about others.

Don
 
maybe you could have been a man instead of being a coward and confronted the
person. if you are too much of a pussy to do that then maybe you should
have called the police while the person was in the restaurant eating and
made a report.
 
Amazing said:
maybe you could have been a man instead of being a coward and confronted the
person. if you are too much of a pussy to do that then maybe you should
have called the police while the person was in the restaurant eating and
made a report.

Could be some of us know we'd get out tail busted for naught. Has nothing to
do with being a pussy, some are and some aren't for some reason. I've had 4
fights in 73 years and lost all 4; I tend to avoid physical contact now.

Well, maybe being a pussy is a frame of mind. My dad had a stupid chihuahua
that was attacked by a doberman. Stupid chihuahua tore the dobe's scrotum open
and damn near kill him! I almost liked the chihuahua after that--almost.

Second idea a good one. Get license # of ass hole and call police. Make a
citizen's arrest if necessary.
 
Don said:
Could be some of us know we'd get out tail busted for naught. Has nothing to
do with being a pussy, some are and some aren't for some reason. I've had 4
fights in 73 years and lost all 4; I tend to avoid physical contact now.

Well, maybe being a pussy is a frame of mind. My dad had a stupid chihuahua
that was attacked by a doberman. Stupid chihuahua tore the dobe's scrotum open
and damn near kill him! I almost liked the chihuahua after that--almost.

Second idea a good one. Get license # of ass hole and call police. Make a
citizen's arrest if necessary.

I don't think they allow citizen's arrests anymore - not since Gomer did
it in Mayberry that one time to get even with Barney. They'd probably
consider it kidnapping now.

Bill Putney
(to reply by e-mail, replace the last letter of the alphabet in my
address with "x")
 
Bill said:
I don't think they allow citizen's arrests anymore - not since Gomer did
it in Mayberry that one time to get even with Barney. They'd probably
consider it kidnapping now.

Slugging the guy, or even the threat, can cause basher to suddenly be in the
right. That's called "assault". So being a man in the sense of physical attack
can land you in jail and court with possibly a $$$ fine.

All I know is:

Saturday I had occasion to call the Coeur d'Alene police about 6 kids that
have moved into the neighborhood. At 2am I woke up to the sounds of yelling
laughing, and a couple of gun shots. This has been a regular occurance since
they moved in to a rental last month. He came out and all was quiet so
couldn't do anything about it. He told me I could perform a citizen's arrest
and press charges. So, sounds like CAs are alive and well in Idaho.

A friend did one in CA ca 1965, she had to physically put a hand on the perp
and say, "You are under arrest. Stay where you are until the police arrive."
I ask our cop and he said, "No, just saying the words is sufficient."

If you'd taken the time to use Google and look it up, here's one of 10,500
hits on the subject at http://ask.yahoo.com/ask/20010220.html :

Dear Yahoo!:
How do I make a citizen's arrest?
David
Elko, Nevada

Dear David:
We can tell you with full confidence that it is a very, very bad idea
to try to drag someone down to the police station on your own. As
the good Trooper Ness of the Illinois State Police says:

When you sign or make a complaint against someone
for an infraction of the law, you are in affect
"arresting" them...I cannot recommend that you try
and "arrest" someone by restraining them physically,
as you may be subject to liability if you do that. Work
within the system by filing your charge with a police
department or States Attorney with jurisdiction.

Needless to say, attempting to manhandle someone renders you
vulnerable to all kinds of nasty lawsuits, in addition to physical
harm. The police department in Arroye Grande, California, offers
this helpful four-step guide to Making a Citizen's Arrest:

1. Notify police upon observing a crime.

2. Provide police with information to assist in identifying the
violator.

3. Sign the complaint form. (After this, most cases are concluded
without your further involvement.)

4. Appear in court when requested by the District Attorney's
Office.

The lesson? The telephone is mightier than the sword.


Sounds simplier than I originally thought. No confrontation of perp is
necessary. I see it now, going up against those 6 kids, who were obviously
high, and saying, "You are under arrest!"

Wham, bam, thank you ma'am!

Don
 
That may not be legal, but I gotta give you props for your actions.

Paintless dent removal is not expensive for 1 or two dents and may be
an option if that one ding gets your blood boiling every time you look
at it.

Excuse me for the really stupid question but is "paintless dent
removal" a type fix to a car or a description of the type of damage?

Thanks

J
 
If it hasn't already been said, paintless dent removal will fix it
without a trace. Most dealers have a paintless dent removal
specialist that works out of the dealer one or two days a month. They
charge roughly $30 per ding. Call and make an appointment.

Also, if it hasn't been said, I assume you took down the person's info
that dinged your car. He/she is on the hook to fix your that they
dented. It would be a shame if the only thing you did was complain
about it here. Especially since the door dinger will continue to do
it to others.

Regards,
LK
 
maybe you could have been a man instead of being a coward and confronted the
person. if you are too much of a pussy to do that

I lost one fight, that I didn't start, as a 120 lb teenager. I have
avoided them for the past 50 years. I'm not stupid enough to challenge
a forty year old construction worker who out weighs me by 50 lbs. I've
been called Howard the coward more than once but never Howard the
stupid. I smile every time I wax the ding and recall 'his' door. :)
then maybe you should
have called the police while the person was in the restaurant eating and
made a report.

[big snip]

BoB
 

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